I've been feeling some what distant in the social networking dept. This post by Tara W pretty much sums up how I've been feeling. Not that I'm anywhere near her status of popularity. I won't ever not blog but I do feel as though I'm masking myself some what now that it's connected to my "professional" photography site. I'm sure I've said this before but I absolutely hate Facebook. Twitters ok but it seriously overwhelms me. I love Instagram and I really love Pinterest. Do those count as social networking? Ha.
I'm in a huge transition right now. Re-evaluting. Revolving. Recharging. I'll be open about it all. Because I'm sure this will resignate with some of you, especially those who have started a photography business or crafty business or a new mom trying to juggle it all. I believe that when something is not working, you've got to change that something. Otherwise you'll just be stuck, moaning about the same sh*t no one wants to hear. You'll fall more into debt because you're spending more and making less. You'll come to the realization that doing what you love doesn't neccesarily translate into dollar signs. This is not me quitting my photography business. This is my re-evaluting and revolving. That said, I will only be taking on 1-2 clients a month...if that. Truth is, I hate the business of photography. I really do. Does that make me less passionate about photography? I don't think so. In fact, I know so. I was way more passionate about this before I did this for profit. The whole aspect of selling, working my butt off and hardly getting anything in return sucks. I did have a month where I was busy with several clients which I suppose is the ideal situation for a budding pro photog but I hated it. I hated that it took away from time with Tyler and Jeff. I would be sitting on the couch editing photos while Tyler would be tugging at my pant leg wanting to play. Jeff would ask if I wanted to watch a movie and I would say "can't...I have to finish editing so and so's photos. And you want to know the kicker? I hardly made anything that month. Not what I should have based on what all the books, dvds and blogs have told me. Whatever I'm doing is not working. It's simply not me. There is a bright shining light at the end of the tunnel though. I really think it takes a bit of faliure to get you on the right track. ( forgive me....I'm just full of inspirational quotes tonight. thank you pinterest) I am really looking forward to my next few shoots. My friend's newborn and a fall inspired senior session. Love this time of year. Anyway, the shining light is an idea I've kicked around for several years now. I've already made quite a few sales and I'm in the process of putting together a sell sheet to present to a few local boutiques. What the heck am I talking about? Handmade baby burps + bibs. I'm looking more into selling locally but I will have an Etsy shop set up soon. My other venture? Not quite ready to divulge but I'll give a hint. Screenprint. Another hint? It will all be for baby. I'm really excited about this.
What are your thoughts on all of this (photog business wise) Are you a professional who has seen success or faliure? Nows the time to be honest. I know the blogworld is full of photographers who are always busy and shoot only the coolest people. But let's get real. xot.

happy friday.
xot.
drinking: diet rootbeer
eating: nothing
listening: nirvana/faith no more
reading: blog (loving this post by 
Another work week down.
Another goal accomplished.
Several more to go.
ETA on the launch of LifeLovePaper + LifeLoveBaby Etsy shop should be sometime next week.
Still taking pre-orders on 2012 Girl Loves Polaroid calendars!



I've been sifting through my Polaroids taken from the past few years. My mind is flooded with memories. These photos are more treasured than all my digital photos combined. The Polaroids I take are special because the 600 film I use to use and love no longer exists. Yes, I know you can still purchase it on Ebay for nothing less than a mortgage payment. Maybe slightly less but still. I find it ridiculous and it takes away my love of the whole instant photo experience. I have yet to try the newer versions of Polaroid film. Not sure why I haven't...I'm on my very last pack of 600. Guess I should order some soon. Or maybe I'll just retire my SX-70. Who knows. But for now, I'm enjoying these. 
1. I really love my old cameras and the history they hold. Some are from family members, some picked up from garage sales.
2. I use to buy myself a lot of flowers. I loved having them every where in my home. In the kitchen, next to my bed. I love waking up to fresh flowers simply arranged in a pretty vase on a clean vanity. It was one of those things I did for myself when I was going through the whole infertility thing. Helped a lot.
3. This was a good birthday. I can't remember which one...I think it was my 30th. or 31st. One of those.
4. I love this one. My first few things I had gotten when I was pregnant with Tyler. The quilt is used quite often. The elephant he cannot sleep without.
5. This was a tough day. I remember it clearly.
6. My old sweet bear. Her soul still lingers in our home.
And this one...this one hurts. This was taken near her passing. She spent the last few months in our bedroom where she would lay on the floor next to the french doors. The sun pours through the windows most of the day. She soaked in the warmth while lying on a massive dog pillow and a comforter for added softness. Miss my girl.
Congrats Margrethe!
Please email me at lifelovepaper@gmail.com
Happy Saturday!
xot.
Starting a new blog feature (for myself and for any of you who want to play along)
Goes with the whole "currents" them.
With Instagram all the rage these days, it's easy to track you life cycle during the week.
My current cycle consist of the usual but capturing it on Instagram and my new favorite app, CrossProcess makes it more fun.
happy weekend!
xot.




So happy for my friend Nina and her sweet man Aaron. These two are so cute together. Although I don't generally shoot weddings, I was happy to be a part of theirs. They were married in a small courthouse ceremony surrounded by close friends and family.
One of my favorite moments of a wedding is watching the parents come in to welcome their new son and daughter. Makes me happy to see families joining together.
xot.
Tyler's funny to watch around his cousins. He's interested but still not too sure about all these mini persons wanting to love on him. Makes my heart swell.xot.
Listening: The Faint
Eating: chewing a piece of Shawn White Stride gum. Minty.
Drinking: h2o
Feeling: tired. Blaming the gloomy weather & teething baby.
Wondering: if I've been complaining too much.
Thinking: I need to get over it and move forward.
Loving: my sunny yellow Be Optimistic postcard from Jed.
Needing: a haircut. Thinking of something drastic.


He's a total ham. He knows exactly when I'm photographing him either with my Canon or my Iphone.He's got 4 teeth. The top ones are throwing him for a loop.
He lives to play.
He loves his toys.
He cannot sit still for a moment and is always on the go.
He always seems to have some kind of scratch or nick on his face.
He's crawling.
He loves to stand.
He's really long and lean and solid.
His favorite food is all food.
Still prefers to be in the buff.
He loves to dance.
Not a fan of being confined to the bouncy or the playpen.
Loves the grocery store and grabs at everything.
Still have not turned him into a lover of Target. ( I think this is because their shopping carts are as comfy)
Currently being quite clingy towards me.
Mimicks me clicking my tongue.
Is learning to wake hello.
Instantly rolls over when the diaper comes off. Makes changing a lot harder these days.
Weeks have just flown by. Months actually. Tomorrow the boy will be 8 months.
Where did the past 7 go? One part of me wants things to slow down...for him to say this cute, stout cuddly little being.
The other cannot wait to see him grow into the great man he is destined to be.
Sigh.
I'm not a hipster.
I can't pull off vintage.
I'm not always crafting cool stuff.
I'm not a stay at home mom.
I misspell words.
I judge a book by it's cover.
I don't always speak up.
I often want what I can't have.
I dream more than take action.
I hate talking on the phone.
I don't blog everyday.
I'm not an artist.
I dislike Facebook.
I don't feel cool enough to Tweet.
I pop my gum.
I'm a smartass.

(the book above will be a feature on the 

Boardwalk (main kit) + Boogie Board (add on)XOT